With the holidays just around the corner, it's safe to assume you'll be attending a soiree or two or three.  My Golden Rule when it comes to being a good guest?  Never arrive empty-handed.  But what exactly should you arrive with?  My top five:

1. I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE homemade baked goods as hostess gifts!  Not a baker?  Not a problem!  Send Foiled Cupcakes  http://www.foiledcupcakes.com/; delicious, gourmet cupcakes will arrive at your host/hostess's home by noon
2. Wine is a classic; or add some sparkle with a Champagne!  Veuve Clicquot is a personal fav; for an all-girls event, try the Rose.
3. Monogrammed bar accessories are timeless and will get tons of use this time of year!  http://www.potterybarn.com/shop/dinnerware-entertaining/glassware/bar-accessories/
4. Anything L'Occitane Lavander!
5. Make a kit!  Par exemple: Pasta + marinara sauce + block or Parmesan cheese + recipe; present in a reusable basket or stainless steel bowl decorated with ribbon.  This idea is easily customized to not only your hostesses tastes and interests, but your budget.  I love the "Film Buff" example from Real Simple

Real Simple "Film Buff" Hostess Gift

Until I began hosting events in my own home, I never understood how much effort goes into the entertaining process!  So trust me when I say no matter what you gift your host or hostess, your thought and effort will be sincerely appreciated!